Happy 3rd, Princess!

Blueberry Girl

text by Neil Gaiman

Ladies of Light, Ladies of Darkness and Ladies of Never-You-Mind,

this is a prayer for a Blueberry Girl.

First, May you ladies be kind.

Keep her from spindles and sleeps at sixteen; Let her stay waking and wise.

Nightmares at three, or bad husbands at thirty; These will not trouble her eyes.

Dull days at forty, false friends at fifteen; Let her have brave days and truth.

Let her go places that we’ve never been; Trust and delight in her youth.

Ladies of Grace, Ladies of Favor and Ladies of Merciful Night,

this is a prayer for a Blueberry Girl.

Grant her your clearness of sight.

Words can be worrisome, people complex; Motives and manners unclear.

Grant her the wisdom to choose her path right, Free from unkindness and fear.

Let her tell stories, and dance in the rain, Somersault, tumble, and run;

Her joys must be high as her sorrows are deep, Let her grow like a weed in the sun.

Ladies of Paradox, Ladies of Measure, Ladies of Shadows-That-Fall,

this is a prayer for a Blueberry Girl, Words written clear on a wall.

Help her to help herself, help her to stand, Help her to lose, and to find.

Teach her we’re only as big as our dreams, show her that fortune is blind.

Truth is a thing she must find for herself, precious, and rare as a pearl;

Give her all these, and a little bit more, Gifts for a Blueberry Girl.

Happy 3rd birthday, Katelyn -

May you have all the blessings of a "Blueberry Girl"

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My baby is 3! On Saturday, Ryan and I took her to Build-A-Bear. (Now that Collin is 9, we sometimes let him keep the other kids for short periods. He did great, and they even had lunch while we were gone!) 

She wanted a unicorn, but the only ones in stock were white, and I know better than that. She got this adorable little girl that she's calls Dolly. We also got her this bear for only $3, and she hasn't slept without them since. 

Kate loves salad, so we took her to lunch at Panera afterwards. She loved her blueberry muffin too. 

Her actual birthday was Tuesday. It was only the second day of preschool, but she dressed up in her tutu and tiara with her birthday badge. She took a little princess dip and animal crackers to share with the other kids. 

After her nap and running her brothers to their after-school sports, we met Dad at home. As requested, we had pizza and queso for dinner. ;-) 

After dinner (and some sweating on the trampoline - look at her hair!), she opened her presents. Back at Brennan's birthday, she decided she wanted a princess backpack and a princess cake. 

And Mom delivered! She also got some princess stickers because she LOVES stickers. 

Her cake was pink (strawberry) with purple polka-dots. I also got her pink (strawberry) ice cream. She was in little-girl heaven. She wouldn't admit it, but she had a great day. 

*** 

Her birthday was a good day, but she's a tough little thing to handle most days (lots of public tantrums still). She is VERY stubborn, and she doesn't like to admit when she is pleased. If you give her what she asks for, she changes her mind so that she can't be happy. If you don't give her what she wants, we all pay the consequence! 

Her fits are a sight to behold. I was going to try to keep track of when her "good days" were, but the last one I remember was before the boys got out of school for summer vacation, so that'll give you an idea of what I am up against. 

If she ever complains that she doesn't have a sister, I am going to remind her of her behavior as a toddler/preschooler, and make it crystal-clear that it's her own fault I couldn't handle more kids. ;-) 

She loves salad, carrots, cucumbers and Ranch. She loves chicken nuggets but not really pb sandwiches. She loves pasta noodles and rice but not really meat (hamburger, bacon, sausage, etc). She is a great eater and will try (and usually finish) everything I give her. She loves ice cream. 

She still takes one afternoon nap from about 12:30-3pm. She is doing 2-mornings per week "mommy-taught" preschool this year with some friends from our neighborhood. She loves music (especially Imagine Dragons) and twirling. She loves swings at the park. 

She loves "Baby Shark" on YouTube and "Sophia the First" on Netflix.  She enjoys story time at the library and music makers at church. She loves going to nursery, and she calls everyone her "friend," especially little girls with ponytails. She loves all things pink, purple, turquoise (yes, she knows that color) and/or sparkly. 

A purple bus showed up at the park, and a picture was demanded

She loves princesses and Legos. She loves super heroes and dragons too. She loves to do puzzles and for me to read her stories. She loves the trampoline too. She loves her princess blanket and her two "ba-ba"s. 

 

She loves water and sand and rocks. She loves the swimming pool and paddleboarding with Dad. 

And she LOVES HER DAD. She is permanently attached to him if he is around (vacations, weekends and evenings). He is almost always carrying her around. 

She is a better helper than the boys ever have been, wanting to empty the dishwasher, fold the laundry and mop the floor. She puts away her shoes and clears her spot at the table without being asked too. 

At Ryan's family reunion this summer, she started going up to all the old men (Ryan's uncle and Ryan's uncle's brother-in-law) and calling them "grandpa." Then she'd ask if she could cuddle with them. She'd sit in their laps when she'd never even met them before. (Her own grandpas weren't at the reunion.) This happened several times over the course of several days. The old guys loved it! It was shocking and sooo super cute. Now we say she "likes older men." 

She was almost totally potty-trained, but then we decided to put her into pull-ups to be safe while on vacation this summer (long car rides and hiking isn't complimentary to little girl bladder sizes), and now she won't have anything to do with it. I plan to hide her pull-ups in a few months and try again. 

We are so grateful Kate is in our family. She bosses her brothers around like she's the oldest, but we are grateful she's our caboose. Love you, Baby Girl! 

First Day 2018-2019

Collin - 4th Grade - Ms Drage

Aug 21st

Brennan - 2nd Grade - Mrs Beaven

Aug 21st

BETHKE TEAM WILLIAMS

Ethan - PreK - Miss Christina

Sept 4th

Is it just me, or does he look older than all the other kids in his class?

Katelyn - 3yo "mommy" preschool

Aug 23rd

Aug 23rd

Kate's class - Esther, Allison, Dallin, my belly-button girl & Marshall

PRESCHOOL TEAM WILLIAMS

PRESCHOOL TEAM WILLIAMS

Grandma's 90th Birthday

Ryan's Grandma Fooks is turning 90 next month, so we headed up to Alberta, Canada for a celebration in her honor before school starts back up for all the great-grandchildren.

FRIDAY
After Ryan worked in the morning, we drove the 7 hours in the afternoon to Billings, MT to spend the night. It was the first time we've spent the night with all four kids in a traditional hotel room. They've stayed in VRBO homes and condos but never a regular hotel room. It was funny to hear their comments. It was a nice, brand-new hotel, so they still got spoiled. We got it for free on Marriott Rewards points, so SCORE!

The pull-out bed literally touched the queen bed. We have a lot of people in our family now! 

Won't be much longer before Kate doesn't fit on the couch cushions on the floor

   
SATURDAY
We headed to Great Falls, MT (about 3 hours away) where we stopped at the airport to pickup Ryan's youngest sister, Mallory, who had flown in from Atlanta.

There was a little area with old planes to wander around while we waited for her plane. It was a good wiggle spot.

After picking her up, we headed for the border, which went without a hitch, except that at the last minute of packing I'd convinced Ryan to bring our paddle boards, so we had to go to a separate place to have our "watercraft" inspected. It was silly, but we do what we are told.

We got to Lethbridge about 5pm and headed to the home we were staying at. It was owned by Ryan's mom's sister's husband's sister, so of course we totally didn't know them. It was the perfect basement though, with two master bedrooms, a kitchenette, family room and play room. Ryan's mom and sister showed up a bit later (they'd already been in town a few days from Vancouver), and we headed to Grandma's house to see her. When Ryan's older sister from Boise got into town, we all went to a sit-down Chinese restaurant (a tradition, but I think it was about 8pm at this point, so the kids were TIRED) to eat dinner. It was a long, busy day.

SUNDAY
Everyone attended sacrament meeting with Grandma Fooks in her 9 o'clock ward. She bore her testimony and expressed her appreciation to all of us for coming from so far to celebrate with her. It was nice.

After a nice nap, we headed back to the church. There was a nice family dinner, a movie in Grandma's honor and family pictures. At dinner, Collin said he thought it would be nice if they let the family go first to get food from the buffet line. I laughed because the large church cultural hall was half-full, and we were all family! He had no idea he was related to everyone there!

After the family time, there was an open house with cake and punch for all of Grandma's friends. It went flawlessly.

Grandma has always been proud of her iconic red glasses, so Ryan's mom made everyone a pair of their own.

So all the family sported their red glasses all evening. 

MONDAY
We picked up Grandma and headed to Waterton, the Canadian portion of Glacier National Park.

We stopped on the way at the Cardston temple. Ryan's parents and grandparents were both sealed here, so it plays a big role in our eternal family. Ryan and I wanted to do a session during this trip, but it was closed for its annual cleaning. Next time!
Side Note: Grandma Fooks' mother posed as the model for Mary, Mother of Jesus, in the mural at the veil here. 

When we got to Waterton, it was super crowded, and no one really anticipated that. It was their family's tradition to eat meatloaf sandwiches at Pass Creek each summer. So... we had meatloaf sandwiches at Pass Creek!

Ryan's mom Lori, Grandma Fooks, and Ryan's Aunt Shan

The kids waded in the water and threw rocks. They played in the sand and tried to build a rock-bridge. We walked to a waterfall, played on a playground and got ice cream too.

Monday evening we stayed in a VRBO house near Waterton.

TUESDAY
Ryan's immediate family broke off from the Canadians this day, and we headed back to the States this morning. We drove to St Mary's Falls on the east side of Glacier National Park. It was mid-afternoon before we arrived, so we had trouble parking the three cars in our caravan. The sun was also super intense for the 3-mile hike, but the falls were BEAUTIFUL!

Collin, whose natural element is in nature

Ryan's mom broke her wrist at girl's camp just a few weeks earlier (so bad she had to have surgery to have a plate put in), but she was a real trooper. Ethan lost his water bottle down into the rushing river too, but we didn't lose any kids, so I'll call that a win!

After our hike, we headed to Logan Pass, where we again had to search for parking. We checked out the visitor center and nature trails.

Then we headed to Columbia Falls, MT. Ryan's mom's childhood best friend has a vacation home there, and she graciously let us all come and stay with her. When we arrived at 6pm, she had taco salad all ready for dinner. It was perfect.

So I did a fair amount of complaining after we visited Yellowstone last year and didn't see ONE bear. We did the drive-thru bear display near Mt Rushmore just for that reason. BUT, on this day, I saw THREE bears in the wild. We saw a baby and its mom while driving over Logan Pass, AND we saw this bear standing in the front yard of the house we were staying in MT. Win, Win, WIN!

WEDNESDAY
This was our lake day. Ryan's whole family headed to Whitefish Beach, which was only about 1/2 hour from Judy's home. There were 6 adults and 13 kids with us! I'm so glad we had our kayak, paddle boards and sand toys. It was hot, but it was a perfect, relaxing day. We had a great time on the water, and I didn't even get sunburned! The boys collected some beautiful rocks too.

Kate LOVES water, sand and rocks. 

She couldn't have been any happier! 

THURSDAY
Ryan really wanted to go back into Glacier, so our family got up early and left by 6am to make the one-hour drive back to the west-side of the park. The parking lot was filling up already by 7am, but we found a spot to hike Avalanche Lake.

"Avalanche Lake Falls"

This hike left me speechless! It starts with a nature trail on a boardwalk with the most amazing waterfall I've ever seen. I don't even think it has its own name, but we decided to call it Avalanche Falls because it was fed by the lake of the same name. 

After leaving the 1-mile boardwalk, the trail gets harder. (It's rated Moderate in my AllTrails app.) It follows along the river for a while, and it laces through dense forest of TALL trees. The wildflowers are amazing. The layer upon layer of mountain-walls off in the distance were awesome, and the variety of shades in green can't be described.

I LOVED this hike. It ends at a pristine mountain lake.

All told, we hiked 7-1/2 miles. I was so proud of my kids. Kate basically rode in the backpack, but Ethan (still only 4yo) walked 99% of it. It was a great morning.

We were already headed back to the house by 10am, so we met Ryan's family for lunch at a burger place. Then we headed to the Whitefish Mountain Resort. We rode the HOT gondola up to the top of the mountain and checked out the nature center up there. Then we came back down on the open ski-benches (much cooler).

We all rode the alpine slide, which would have been fun if Brennan hadn't taken the "slow" signs so literally. :-) We'll have to try that activity again in Park City next summer.
                            
By this point, our kiddos were REALLY dragging (and let's be honest - so was I!), so we stopped at a grocery store to grab hot dogs for dinner and headed back to the house. We tried to head to bed early.

FRIDAY
Our drive home started at 4:15am. Originally, we were going to split the drive in half - like on the way up - but then I was invited to attended a leadership conference with Elder Uchtdorf on Saturday, and I didn't want to miss it. So, we knew we had 14 hours ahead of us, and we wanted to be on the rode at 5am.

Everything was going fine, and all four kids were even asleep, when a deer rammed into our van about 6:15am. We fared better than the deer did, since we saw her lying in the road with our side-view mirror at her side.

We were uninjured, but the windshield was another story. It was SHATTERED.

We didn't have a cell signal, so we drove another hour until we got to a small town. Ryan had to hang his head over the center console to see out, and left bends in the road were pretty scary. Each time we hit a little bump in the road, tiny shards of glass tinkled down into his lap and on the dash. When the sun came up, it was all sparkly, like a firework. It could have been pretty, but it wasn't. We tried to joke that our van was now bedazzled, but it was really very scary and stressful.

When we finally talked to the insurance company, we decided that we could drive the car home (without a side mirror and with a bashed-in driver-side sliding door), but we knew we needed a new windshield ASAP. The only company with same-day service available was another hour away IN THE WRONG DIRECTION. So... we headed to Missoula, MT.

When we arrived at the glass place at 9:30am, they told us it'd take until 11:30 to get the work done. As I unpacked the kids, I asked directions to the waiting area, but he told me they didn't have one. I about died. Luckily, another employee pointed us in the direction of an elementary school playground, so we spent the next two hours fooling around there. Three hundred dollars and a piece of tape over the whistling hole created by the missing mirror later, and we finally got back on the road at 12 noon. We'd been awake for 8 hours, and we still had 12 hours of more travel ahead of us.

All went well until about 7pm. The kids were done. Ryan and I were DONE, and we still had FIVE hours to go. There was some screaming, hitting and definitely some crying. We got home 2 minutes before midnight (remember that we'd woken up at 4am?!), and we were asleep by 12:30. I only unpacked enough to hang up my wrinkled, most-comfy dress for my morning meeting, and we were all out.

CONCLUSION
The training with Elder Uchtdorf was AMAZING! Seeing Grandma and Ryan's family was WONDERFUL as well. Glacier National Park is BEAUTIFUL too. We had a great trip, minus all the hassle with the deer and the van. This week we are haggling with the insurance company about getting the van fixed (they say it isn't totalled, but we think they are underestimating the repair costs, so we are getting independent quotes. It's fun, lol). But we are safe, happy and home, and school starts Tuesday. Yikes!