Tuesday, June 1, 2021

Camping at Inks Lake State Park

We enjoyed another long weekend camping over Memorial Day. We headed to Inks Lake, and we were able to secure a lake-side camp site 5 months ago. Our friends who were planning to join us were unable to, but then we were able to transfer their reservation to another family the week before. Despite persistent rain for the last 2 months, we were able to make it all happen! We had a great time. 

We got the car all loaded and Ryan finished up work, so we left about 4pm. About 5:30pm, we stopped for fast food and got caught in a serious thunderstorm. We plowed on, but our friends decided to head home and try again the next morning. By the time we arrived, the rain was only a drizzle, and Ryan and I set up the tent. As the rain tapered off entirely, Collin and Brennan helped toss all the tent things (sleeping bags, cots, mats, clothes) inside. We didn't get anything extra done before another downpour started, so we zipped in for the night at 8 o'clock and hoped for the best. In reality, it only rained a bit longer and we were snug and dry in the tent. 

Saturday morning we finished setting up camp (food, table cover, etc) and then headed to Longhorn Caverns nearby. We had booked a tour for that morning, and our friends were able to make it back. It was AMAZING! With all the rain, it was very wet and muddy, but it was really neat to see all the cool rock formations. 




After our tour, we headed back to the campground. Our friends got all set up, and we had lunch. The afternoon continued with jet skiing, paddleboards, kayaking, tubes and tubing, fishing and kneeboarding. The kids got along pretty well, and the weather was perfect. 




Sunday morning was a bit confusing. We had a short Come Follow Me lesson, and then we planned to hike to a swimming hole. But our friends didn't want to swim on Sunday, so they went fishing while we let our kids get in the water at our campsite. As we ate lunch, they packed up their site and then we did our walk to the swimming hole. Unfortunately, by this time the parking lot was entirely full and the swimming hole was packed. It wasn't nearly as nice as I think it would have been earlier. Oh well. 



We headed back to our campsite and started the big packing up. Monday morning we had some drizzle as we were loading, but it was fine. Whew. 

We had a great time! We plan to return next Memorial Day weekend. Such a pretty place! 

Tuesday, May 18, 2021

Ohio!

My grandfather passed away in December - my last grandparent - but they waited until Spring hoping many could get vaccinated and join together in celebrating his life. I was able to fly to Columbus Friday through Monday, and I am so grateful COVID is finally winding down. It was great to see so many.

FRIDAY

I woke up early (4:30), so I could leave for the airport by 5am. I took Ryan's car, so he could have my big car for the weekend. Flying still made me feel like we were in a pandemic - constant mask-wearing, sanitary wipes distribution, prepackaged snack-packs on the planes, Xed seats at the gates, and deplaning by rows. Even the long-term parking lot was closed, but I found a spot at the very top of the garage.


I arrived just after Rob, so he waited for me and Mom & Dad - who'd arrived the day before - picked us up in a rental car mini-van. We drove around and saw our old schools, old houses and even grabbed fast food and ate at a park we liked to play at as kids (Blendon Woods). Then we picked up Sean & Julian and met up with Jared at the hotel. 



We went to another fun park (Friendship) and wandered a while. It was my dad's 70th birthday, so we went to Massey's Pizza to celebrate. It was definitely as perfect and delicious as I have been dreaming about the last 10 years! 

Jared booked a suite so we'd have a space to hang out, but we didn't stay up too late this first night.

SATURDAY

Rob and I got up early - we shared a room - and went for a 2-mile walk through some neighborhoods. After getting ready, we headed to the Memorial Service altogether. Grandpa Roy was buried in St Joseph's Catholic Cemetery. It was beautiful. He was part of the peace forces after World War II and a firefighter in Columbus, so there was a nice 21-gun salute and bugler. A Catholic deacon said some kind words, and my Uncle Tom dedicated the grave.





Afterwards, we headed to Uncle Rick's house for City Barbeque and Aunt Vicky's Italian pastas. There was plenty of time to chat with cousins, aunts and uncles from everywhere. There were people from California, Utah, Kentucky, North Carolina, Texas, Massachusetts, Maryland, Indiana and Ohio. It was so nice. It was also my grandpa's widow's 90th birthday, so we were able to sing to her. 

Afterwards, we went and got Graeter's ice cream (about as yummy as all yummy ice cream, but nothing I lay awake thinking about having again). 

Afterwards, we headed to Gahanna's Creekside and had a nice long walk along the water, golf course and shopfronts. Mom & Dad headed back to the hotel, but "us kids" walked to Jared's favorite restaurant, Lola's. Unfortunately, prom reservations made it impossible for us to eat there. Since we had to walk back to the hotel anyway, we stopped in at Massey's as we passed by and had some more pizza! 

Jared's room served as another good long chatting place, and us sibs stayed up way too late talking and catching up. I just love my brothers so much! We don't get to see each other very often, so it is always a blessing when we do. 

SUNDAY

Jared, Sean and Julian were already well on their ways home by the time I woke up and rushed to get ready for Church. We were able to attend Gahanna Ward, where we grew up. I chatted with Deb & Don Frazier (it was her birthday) and Dean Hartzell (our faithful home teacher). It was the 1-year anniversary of David Smith's heart attack and death, so after sacrament meeting, we headed to Julie's house to visit with her. She has had a rough year, for sure, but it was so good to see her. 

I hurried back to the hotel where my best high school friend, Sarah, picked me up for lunch. We met up with Christy, another best friend from my younger years, at Creekside. We were able to chat about marriage and children for several hours. We still have very similar views about family and life, and it was refreshing to be together again. We enjoyed some tacos outside on the patio. 

In the evening, we headed to Kroger for a snack run, and Rob & I prepared to head home. It was nice to chat with my parents, and I enjoyed some delicious Kroger fudge cake. 

MONDAY

We were up at 4:30 again, so we could leave by 5am. Thankfully, Dad was able to chauffer Rob & I back to the airport together. It was another long day of masking, social distancing and airports. I got home in time to take a nap before running the kids to all their activities (art club & choir concert). 

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Big thanks to Ryan for doing 2 birthday parties, 2 soccer games and full 2-hour church. I am so grateful I never have to worry if he'll let me get away. I had a wonderful weekend full of family and friends who I hadn't seen in 2-10 years. I felt ready to tackle kids and family all over again when I got back. The weather was absolutely perfect - sunny and 70 with low humidity the whole time we were in Ohio. A great long weekend, for sure! 

Monday, April 12, 2021

Tale of an Anonymous Sub

This is the tale of an anonymous substitute teacher in an anonymous state in the year 2021. The pandemic of COVID-19 had been well underway for more than a year in the United States. Protocols had been implemented in all open school districts across the nation. In this anonymous area, school had been in session more than 7 months. Mask-wearing, at-home temperature screening, and sanitation of areas had been implemented with fidelity. The substitute whose story we've received permission to publish had been regularly subbing 2-4 days per week in the same edifice in which the story takes place. All names have been changed to protect the innocent... and the guilty. 

The week started with zero positive cases in the school; it ended with 19... and then 29.  

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On noon on Tuesday, March 23, 2021 an elementary teacher (hereafter referred to as Teacher A) and her 6th grade son (at a different school but in the same district) received confirmation that their prior test for COVID-19 had returned positive results. They had both been suffering from allergies and decided to be tested out of an abundance of caution earlier in the week. As they awaited their results, they each attended work/school. At noon, they each left to quarantine for the prescribed 10 days. 

On Monday, March 29, Teacher A's substitute recorded 6 absences within the teacher's class. The teacher next door (hereafter referred to as Teacher B) recorded 7 absences. Each class had 26 children on the class roll. Teacher A and Teacher B are known as "switch teachers." They each teach the same content morning and afternoon, and their students attend class in one classroom in the morning and the other classroom in the afternoon. As per district guidelines, desks are wiped down with disinfectant during "switch time." Teacher A and Teacher B hold their classes in portable classrooms on-site at an elementary playground. 

On Tuesday, March 30, Teacher A's substitute recorded 7 absences and Teacher B recorded 8 absences. Frustrated that more and more children were falling ill, Teacher B contacted district COVID-19 leadership with the absence information, as well as the number of positive COVID students within her classes. In response, Teacher B was told she was not to be in contact with parents of her students about their medical tests and their results. 

At about 10am, school administration interrupted district-wide testing to abruptly move both classes of students into the school building. In order to enter the building, temperature forehead scans were used. Teacher A's class had 3 students sent home - one complained of stomach pain, one had a fever of 103 and one had a gaiter. (According to district protocols, gaiters, though officially permitted, require immediate quarantine if exposure is confirmed.) 

Upon occupying an classroom being used as storage within the school building, the substitute tried to resume district content testing. A district nurse was called upon to administer oral temperature checks and to ask a series for symptom questions of students, who were each called into the hall for this private screening. Twelve more students had their belongings collected for them as they were escorted to the office. 

That night Teacher B and Teacher B's daughter - a student at the same school - tested positive for COVID-19 after more than a week of allergy-like symptoms. Our anonymous substitute was notified via text message of the diagnoses. 

On Wednesday, March 31st, the substitute arrived at the school to discover that no absence had been recorded for Teacher B. She volunteered to cover both Teacher A and Teacher B's classes, since each class was likely to be small. At 10am, when attendance was officially recorded for the day, 16 children of the 52 on the class rolls were in attendance. Teacher B's classroom was left locked and dark, and the substitute taught from Teacher A's classroom. 

After consulting the art teacher if it would be okay to combine the classes for this day and being denied, the anonymous substitute led two lines of students inside the building to attend their Specials class - 8 to Computers and 8 to Art. The Computers teacher was not consulted as she was a substitute this day as well. 

At 9:30am, the principal visited the classroom to notify the substitute and her students that parents were being notified to obtain permission to COVID test on-site during the school day. The principal instructed the substitute to keep the classroom door locked and indicated that she alone could open the door to knocks. No visitors (for example, inclusion special education instructors) were to be permitted inside the classroom. The children were panicked and wished to call their parents. Concerned for possible administrative consequences, the substitute denied their anguished requests. 

District nurses and other staff setup in Teacher B's classroom next door throughout the rest of the morning. Other teachers, staff and students throughout the building began to receive optional COVID testing, but the students in the substitute's classroom were not pulled to test nor informed if their parents had consented or not. 

At noon, the substitute asked the lead secretary when her students would receive their testing. With lunch looming at 1:15, she wanted them to be able to leave their claustrophobic confines to eat and play, as healthy children should. She was scoffed at for her naivety and informed the students would remain within the locked classroom for the remainder of the day, except for emergency restroom needs. 

COVID testing of the class finally began about 12:30pm. Through tears and fear, each child sought comfort from the substitute, who provided calming words and side-ways hugs. As the first student (hereafter referred to as Student 1) was called out and quickly returned to her work, the nervous anticipation subsided slightly. 

Suddenly, the masked nurse entered the room and quickly and wordlessly escorted Student 1 back next door grabbing her backpack off her chair and cramming her desktop items into it. Nothing was said, but all knew what her results must be. 

A second and then third student were then pulled for their tests, but now each student remained next door while each awaited their results. As the door opened between the rooms, the nurse would either call another student's name to test or instruct the substitute to pack up the previous student's things. 

By 2pm, 6 students had been silently removed from class and never returned. The substitute spent the time spraying disinfectant and wiping down desks, chairs, plexiglass and Chromebooks. Hand sanitizer  was also liberally applied. 

Frustrated at the lack of information and apparent disregard for her own health, the substitute asked why so many teachers throughout the building had been permitted to receive a COVID test. The nurse replied, "Oh, do you want one too?" 

At 1:30pm, with 10 negative students remaining, the office called to tell the substitute that a student was being checked out for the day and to bring her things to the office. Then the conversation went like this...

Secretary: "Do you know what's going on?"

Substitute: "No, no one has told me anything." 

Secretary: "They are all going home. Parents have been notified that the classroom is shut down, and all students must be picked up immediately."  

Substitute: "The negative students are going home early too?"

Secretary: "Yes, all students are now immediately quarantined." 

For the next 30 minutes, the phone rang frantically for student pickups, and the substitute was pulled next door for her COVID test. She was permitted to return to the classroom while awaiting her results, to clean more and answer the persistent phone. After 15 minutes, she asked and was told her results were negative. She then asked the nurse, "Since I'm half vaccinated (she had received her first COVID dose 2 weeks previously), I don't need to quarantine, right?" To which she was told that she was also quarantined and was not permitted to work for the coming 10 days. 

At 2:15, two students remained. A call to the office informed the substitute that these two parents were angry that their children were being sent home, since they had permitted the testing and had tested negative, but by 2:30, all students were gone. 

The anonymous substitute called Teacher A and informed her about the day and her students' status. She had not been told her students had been tested at school, nor had she been told that all students had been sent home, regardless of their COVID status. She was furious at the lack of transparency.

The substitute went to the office to check out for the day and wait for her own biological children to be dismissed. She informed the secretary of her upcoming substitute assignments and her now-quarantined status. The secretary quietly removed her upcoming assignments from the system. 

Wednesday evening the District sent an email to all elementary parents informing them that there were 19 active COVID cases isolated to one portable classroom unit, and that all blame should be placed on inconsistently teacher-implemented COVID safety protocols. The next days - Thursday and Friday - were scheduled school closures for the Easter weekend holiday. That Sunday evening the district emailed an updated active COVID case count of 29, and parents within the other portable classroom unit were also told their classrooms were closed for the coming week, effectively quarantining the entire grade-level, who would be receiving e-learning instruction from their quarantined teachers. 

The anonymous substitute spent the week volunteering at an unaccompanied children's refugee center in her hometown, where she was COVID tested daily before working with the children. She was negative each time. 

Friday, March 12, 2021

Hot Springs, Arkansas

We decided to hit the road and escape Texas for Spring Break this year. Ryan's sister Megan just moved to Dallas over Christmas Break, so first we headed up there. We got a hotel, since they are in a small duplex until they close on their new house in June. We drove up on Friday and stayed until Sunday. Ryan's parents were finally able to get the COVID vaccine, so they were able to fly into Dallas. We haven't seen them since Thanksgiving of 2019, so it was a great treat. 

DALLAS

Friday evening we met up with Megan and Nana & Papa at Hard Eight BBQ. Literally the best bbq we've had in Texas! Too bad they aren't in San Antonio. Afterwards, Ryan dropped Ethan, Kate and I off at the hotel, and he and Collin and Brennan headed to the rental to play games and chat. 
Saturday morning we headed into downtown Dallas to Klyde Warren Park. It is a park built on top of the freeway! Because of COVID, the playground was closed, but the kids still had fun with a little soccer in the field and basketball and scootering under the pavilion. We even rode a little free trolley around the area. For lunch, we headed to a pizza place and the Cake Bar, where you buy individual slices of gourmet cake. Yum!
After swimming and hot tubbing at the hotel, we had cake in the lobby and then all headed to Megan's to play cards while the kids played Among Us on their tablets.
On Sunday, we cleaned up our room and watched our broadcasted multi-stake conference for south Texas. At noon, we checked out and picked up Nana & Papa at Megan's to start our trek to Hot Springs. 
I have to admit I was more than a little excited to cross the border out of Texas. It is such a huge state, we haven't left since we moved here almost 2 years ago. We've gone on plenty of stay-cations, but it was nice to be in Arkansas for the week. 

HOT SPRINGS

We arrived at our cute rental about 5pm. After unloading the car, we walked into town and ate dinner at Superior Bathhouse. It was a HUGE disappointment. Our food took about 1-1/2 hrs, Ryan & Papa's food arrived at the table 20 minutes after the rest of ours, they were out of a lot of things on their small menu, the service was AWFUL, it was super expensive, and their root beer (made from the local hot springs) was gross. Zero stars. 
Monday we headed to Hot Springs National Park. The park is literally right in the middle of town. We could have walked from our rental house to the trailheads. Because of the steepness of the road to the top though, we chose to drive to the mountain tower. We found a nice nature trail that encircled the top and enjoyed a few miles of walking. 
After lunch and some resting, we headed to Pirate's Cove Adventure Golf. It was a super fun course, and despite my early lead, Ryan and Nana went head to head at the end, with Ryan winning out. The course even had one hole under a fake waterfall! I made tacos for dinner, and we had grocery store ice cream to end out our day. 
On Tuesday we headed to Lake Catherine State Park. This was my favorite - albeit exhausting - day. We hiked the Falls Branch Trail to a nice waterfall, about 2 miles. 








After a quick picnic lunch in the park, we headed to Garvan Woodland Gardens. The kids had a fun bingo card with stickers to give them things to look for, and we saw a lots of natural architecture (cathedral, treehouse) as well as blooming tulips and budding trees. It screamed "Spring is around the corner," and it made we want to stay a week to see the daffodils bloom. We were super tired from all our walking at this point, but we still thought it was awesome. The peacocks were fun too. 

On Wednesday it was overcast when we got up, and it drizzled rain as we headed to Ron Coleman's gem digging. Nana & I opted to stay in the car, while the rest of the crew trekked through the red mud to dig for jewels. It rained pretty heavily the first little while, but they stuck with it for three hours and found a lot of cool gems. 

After lunch and more resting, we walked into town for dinner again. I'd made early reservations, but there was no need - Angel's Pizza was empty. I'd read that the kids could make their own pizzas, so I asked for dough, and the owner/host/waiter/cook (yes, all one guy) said "they could do that." In the end, the kids spent all this time making the perfect crust, and then he brought out their pizzas already made without ever taking their creations. Another disappointment! Honestly, if he would have just faked that they were eating the crust they'd pressed, it would have been a better experience. Sigh. Restaurants in Hot Springs left much to be desired. Anyway, it was way expensive and not very tasty, so 1 star because I feel sorry for the one-man show. 

Last but not least, we let the kids each pick a souvenir to remember this trip. As usual, they each wanted a "stuffie." They were all out of their budget, so Nana took pity on them and bought them. 


Thursday was DRIVING, DRIVING, DRIVING. We got on the road at 7am and headed back to Dallas to drop off Nana & Papa with Megan. We had Wendy's for lunch before saying goodbye. It was about 5 hours. From there, we headed home through downtown Dallas, Waco, Austin and San Antonio. Soooo much traffic! I don't think we've ever lived somewhere with some many big cities all nested together, and it was nearly constant construction as well. Whew! Finally, we got home at 6:30pm. Long, stressful day. 

I don't think we'll ever head back to Arkansas. I liked Lake Catherine and Garvan Gardens, but they weren't something that I couldn't find elsewhere. I liked our house - built in 1900 to be used as a rental cottage and remodeled in 2019 for the same purpose. The kids loved their bunk room. It was perfect for our needs, and the location was unbeatable. 
I think the National Park Service felt bad for Arkansas, so they named Hot Springs a national park. It really wasn't anything special, no offense. I am so glad we got away and got to see Ryan's parents though! 

Sno-vid

THE RECAP

What a weird week! Last Thursday, it rained and rained, but the temperature was about 35 degrees. I was subbing at the school, and all the teachers were told to hurry home before it froze. That night, it all froze into ice. Luckily, Friday the kids already had scheduled off school. Ryan's sister Megan just moved to Dallas, and she had planned to come for President's Day weekend but decided against it. Thank goodness! By midmorning, though, Ryan was able to head into work, and on his way home, he got us two Costco pizzas to prepare for the next few days. Lots of pizza was in our future.

Our tropical foliage didn't do so well with ice, snow, ice and then more snow

Saturday we got more rain which then turned to ice, so Church was canceled on Sunday. Sunday night it dropped into the single digits with wind chills in the negatives, and we got about 6 inches of snow... in SOUTH Texas. They haven't seen snow like this since the late 1980s, and they haven't seen temperatures like this since the 1895. 

Anyway, our running water into the house froze on Sunday night. The pipes here are close to the surface because of all the limestone, and we learned late on Monday afternoon that our main line in from the street runs vertical along the wall of the house for about 3 feet. Unfortunately, we also don't get any sun on that particular corner, so the pipe was exposed to extreme cold on all sides (brick exterior and drywalled garage). We started a space heater on the wall in the garage where the water comes in, and Ryan monitored it all night so we didn't have a house fire. 


In the mean time, we brought buckets of snow in from the backyard to dump in the bath tub and melt. We had fresh water in the freezer for drinking, but we didn't want to waste that on flushing toilets. Ryan even microwaved some snow for me to wash my face each morning and night. It's the little things, lol. 

Finally, on Tuesday afternoon we got a trickle that then became enough water to fill all the bath tubs (for future flushing). Ryan and I even got showers. Oh boy, that was heaven. 

Unfortunately, the power went out at the water pumping stations city-wide, and we lost water pressure on Wednesday morning. We are so glad we had the bath tubs full by this point. Unflushed toilets are extremely smelly, as you can imagine. 

Wednesday finally brought temperatures above freezing all day, which melted all the snow. But it also brought more rain - sleeting, cold rain. The district officially canceled school for the rest of the week, citing the unreliability of gas, electric and water. On Wednesday night everything froze again overnight, and we lost water yet again. On Thursday, it snowed all day, from dawn until dusk. We got another 4-6 inches... again! 

A coating we thought our backyard would never see

The power was figured out for most of the state by Thursday, but not the water. The water company told us to expect water on Monday or Tuesday for our area, which is apparently uphill from the rest of the system. 

Friday the temperature was well-above freezing all day. We ran the space heater in the garage again, as neighbors started reporting that their water was back on. Thursday's constant snow was virtually entirely melted by noon. We got our water back in the afternoon, but we were still under a boil-order until Tuesday. 

TENDER MERCIES

One morning the servers were down at Ryan's work, so he couldn't log in. Because we were lucky enough to have power at home, we did a family Mario Cart party! 

Electricity/Heat - There is a government body who determines the power grid in Texas. They decide if the system is going to be overloaded, and then show certain grids to turn off intermittently so everyone has to share the load. They have predetermined certain areas (like ones with hospitals) to never endure a mandatory shut-down. Well, guess what? We live next to a top-secret (it's not on Google maps at all) government base with electric fences and barbed wire. Fort Stanley is one of the essential locations that does not get shut off, and therefore WE HAVE HAD POWER THIS WHOLE TIME! I don't know anyone else in our area outside our neighborhood who hasn't lost power for hours at a time, but we haven't. So the next time we are annoyed on a Saturday morning because Camp Stanley is detonating bombs over and over and over again, I'll remember that it was because of them we didn't lose our electricity. 

Water - Even though we didn't take precautions Sunday night, like we should have, we were able to get the water on long enough Tuesday to store some before we lost pressure entirely.
Our neighbor with our floor plan was also able to tell us about the hidden pipe we needed to heat in order to restore water for that brief time. 

This is how you haul snow inside to the bathtub to use for flushing

Church - We are pros at having Church at home. We even have our fancy sacrament trays now to use. We watched President Nelson's talk from October Conference too. We actually really love home-church. And we were still all able to participate in our 2nd hour meetings on Zoom in the afternoon. 

Food - I had bought enough food for an entire additional family to come stay for the weekend, so we haven't had to worry about going to the grocery store. They have barely been open, the trucks can't get it to restock the shelves, and they have implemented max occupancy numbers because of COVID. It's nearly impossible to get food. 

Kate thought the snow was delicious! 

Sledding with boogie boards is how Texans do it!

Sledding - We gave away our sleds when we moved to the South, but I read of others using their beach boogie boards. Each day I sent the kids to the hill into the drainage ditch by the neighborhood pool, and they sledded for about an hour. We had adequate gloves and hats for everyone, but since they've grown since we moved from a place with winter, only Kate had snow pants and boots. Ethan also had hand-me-down boots, and Collin was able to wear mine. It was quite the hodge-podge of gear, but they had a lot of fun! 

They may have GROWN a bit in the last 2 years!