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Monday, August 12, 2024

New Job!


In July, my position in gifted & talented that I used to have at our elementary school opened back up, but instead of being a teacher's aide position, it was a salaried-teacher position. I applied, interviewed and got it! I got my old room back, and it has been a whirlwind ever since.

Since quitting the position - not due to the responsibilities but due to the abysmally low-pay - I have interviewed for many other positions. I had my heart set on each one, and then I didn't get it. It was heart breaking. 

I lack confidence on the best of days, so I decided to give up teaching altogether. In fact, I secured a beginning position with a home organizing company in June. (Which was super fun, and I am going to sub-in each summer with them when we are on school break.)

Unfortunately, we have been feeling a lot of financial strain for about a year now. My $1000/month in sub pay had become essential, but we had a lot of expenses ahead of us - a car and car insurance for Collin, repairs for my cursed Expedition, aging house repairs, etc. Not to mention my usual desires to improve the house and go on fun vacations! 

Anyway, securing a salaried position with benefits and quadruple the income was a huge blessing. Not to mention, I get to teach Ethan and Katelyn and their friends each day, I get most of the days off the kids get off, I get to spend all my time with kids who make fun and interesting comments and connections, and I have the autonomy to run things however I want! I love taking E&K to school each day, and Katelyn is the best helper before and after school. (Ethan has the school news show each morning and likes to ride the bus home with his friend Logan each day.) 

The kids asked me how long I'd have this job, and I told them twenty years! Here's to my new career.

Monday, July 15, 2024

New Calling

Exactly one hour before my first presidency meeting with my new Relief Society presidency as the new Relief Society president, I accepted the full-time gifted and talented teaching position. 

Basically, I got a full-time calling the same day I got a full-time job. My kids are the most incredible, loving, and helpful people. They love and serve me and each other, often without being asked to.   

I also have an amazingly supportive and helpful husband. He lets me cry and listens and offers advice. He started a online evening 2nd Masters degree (in data analysis) in May. It's two years. We really are up to our eyeballs in busy-ness. He helps with everything here at home, and then he does school and/or work most of the night. He still travels regularly too. It's a full plate.  

Personally, I have never done anything more challenging in all my life than serve in this capacity. We have a very challenging ward (multiple divorces, terminal cancer, mental health, jail time, abuse, unemployment, under-employment, etc.). 

I have always been tender-hearted. I like to think that my sensitivities help me to have compassion for others, but they also cause me a lot of sadness and anxiety. I often lay awake worrying about all the things. More than anything else, I want to do everything well. I want to be the best leader, bear the best testimony, and say the best thing. I want to be the best teacher, the best mom, and the best wife. I know - not a low bar I've set there for myself.  

Thursday, August 10, 2023

First Day of School


 Here we go! Another school year underway.



Katelyn - 3rd - Van Raub - Cooley & O'Neill


Ethan - 4th - Van Raub - Economidis & Carroll


Brennan - 7th - South - Honors track


Collin - 9th - Champion - cybersecurity emphasis

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Family Buddies



Bus Stop Buddies



Tuesday, July 28, 2020

Summer of the Plague

END OF THE YEAR
I surely never thought I'd live through a plague, but yet here we are: COVID-19. Our summer has been strange, to say the least. The kids never went back to school, so their last regular day was March 6th.







Collin graduated from elementary school, with a drive-thru parade on June 11th. Ethan graduated from kindergarten with a drive-thru parade in May. Katelyn graduated from preschool, with a virtual class party on Zoom. Brennan moved from 3rd to 4th grade with absolutely no closure. I can't say I'm sad that we missed all the May-cember events, but it did make the whole end-of-the-school-year anti-climatic.

SUMMER WEEKENDS
Our summer Saturdays were spent mostly at the lake. We've found our preference is Canyon Lake. We LOVED our one trip to Inks Lake, but it's hard to get reservations and it's 2 hours away. Canyon Lake is inexpensive ($10), close (45 mins) and works for both paddle boarding and the jet ski. We've had a ton of fun! We met friends there twice too.



We paid for a year membership to Six Flags before all this started, so as soon as we were able to we went there. Masks are required except for in the water park. We've only done the amusement park portion twice (once with the few rides that are open, and once for 40 minutes to see the 4th of July fireworks).

Wearing a mask when it is almost 100 degrees with 80% humidity is out-of-this-world awful. We had even more reservations to go to the water park, but honestly, I don't feel safe being around so many potential contagions without a mask, so we stopped going after 3 times.



For the 4th of July, we went to Six Flags and did the water park in the afternoon. Then we picked up pizza, came home and watched Hamilton and went back for the fireworks. It was perfect! It's awesome that we only live 10 minutes away.

 


On our way home from the Six Flags' fireworks, we stopped in the field near our home. It is between three firework stands and all fireworks are legal in our area. It was like a war-zone! The kids loved it and said many times how much better it was than the Six Flags show.  Haha.

One Friday evening in June, after the kids were already in bed, we learned that even though we had Six Flags reservations for the next day, we weren't going to be allowed to use the water park - just the amusement park. All of the sudden, Ryan said, "Let's go to the beach!" So we packed up the car, and when the kids got up the next morning, we got in the car and drove to Port Aransas (3 hours). We stopped at their Walmart for boogie boards and sand shovels, and it was a perfect, though LONG, day.






SUMMER DAYS
Week-days we did "Mom's school work" each morning (grade-level workbooks) and went to the pool just before lunch. I didn't want them eating in the pool area, so we came home at lunch time and ate and I read aloud the Chronicles of Narnia series. The kids listened/read their own books each afternoon. I love the routine I've gotten them into with workbooks, pool, read aloud and independent reading. I plan to do that again next summer.

Collin has been reading the Artemis Fowl series, and Brennan has been reading the Theodore Boone series. Ethan has listened to both of the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory books, as well as all the Mouse and the Motorcycle series. He's working on the Andrew Clements' books now. Katelyn has been listening to the Whatever After series.

Usually in the summer, we spend at least one morning a week at the library for some kind of activity related to the Summer Reading Program. This year, you could sign up for a bag for each of your children filled with goodies and a free book, as well as a schedule of activities to do at home. The theme for this summer was traveling around the world (it was also supposed to be the Summer Olympics), so one morning each week I canceled our workbook time and we did one of the countries from the packet. I would mark the new country on a world map with a sticker, and then we'd watch 2 or 3 YouTube videos about the country. Sometimes we would even video chat with someone who had visited the country of the week: Jared & Charlotte (Switzerland & New Zealand), Rob (Kenya) and Grandma & Grandpa (Israel).

After learning a bit together, each of the kids then picked something they wanted to learn more in-depth about, with Ethan and Kate teaming up with Collin, Brennan or I. After 45 mins to an hour, each group or individual presented what they had learned. Here is Kate with the Great Wall of China.

Collin and Ethan showed us a golf ball that could float in water the same salinity as the Dead Sea (Israel). Brennan drew pictures and wrote facts about cow fighting (New Zealand) and Dome of the Rock (Israel). Collin made the Kenyan flag another week. We also made masks (Kenya) and cow bells (New Zealand).  Collin taught us the haka dance (New Zealand). Brennan and Kate set up an obstacle course in the backyard to represent the Olympic Games (Greece). Kate taught us yoga poses (India). It was great fun and helped to break up our weeks.

Our neighborhood pool is closed every Wednesday for cleaning, and since it's so hot here, there isn't much you can do unless you stay home or get wet. So one Wednesday I took the kids to the creek near their soccer fields. It's called Cibolo Nature Preserve. Brennan didn't like how dirty (mud and bugs) it was, so we didn't go back, but everyone else had a great time.







END OF THE SUMMER
We did have a slight reprieve in cases of illness at the beginning and middle of June. The Texas governor started opening restaurants and nonessential businesses (like shopping, movie theaters and salons), but there was a huge spike in cases by the beginning of July, and things had to start closing again. Masks were made mandatory everywhere by the middle of July, and that's supposed to keep our hospitals from overflowing and needless lives from being lost. Fingers crossed.

We are now wrapping up our summer "vacation," and we are making the big School Decision. Every mother is in full-sleepless turmoil. The choices here in Texas are: to send to full in-person learning with a mask all the time, to do full e-learning on a computer all day, or to withdraw and home school. After A LOT of angst, Ryan and I have to decided to enroll the kids in in-person school. I'll assure you I looked into each options for many hours, and this one gave me the most peace.

After we decided to send them, our county declared that all schools must do e-learning through Labor Day. Oddly, most of our school district is not in our county, therefore Collin will be able to attend his middle school right away on Aug 12th, but the "Littles" will all do computer learning at least for three weeks. CRAZY!

* UPDATE: We just received word from the District that their request to exempt our two elementary schools from mandatory e-learning through Labor Day was accepted, so all my kids will go to school on the 12th... right now. *

We are headed to South Padre Island for a beach vacation next week. I booked our oceanfront condo  almost a year ago, but of course, everything has changed since then. All county beaches are closed, but thankfully, our condo sits on the city-owned beach. No shade structures are allowed except umbrellas, so we bought an umbrella. We were going to do a bunch of museums and touristy things, but they are all closed, so I'm glad we can at least use the beach. The condo complex is enforcing mask-wearing, so we'll see what that means at their pool.

I am grateful for our health, and I'm grateful for our huge house. We have plenty of space to spread out when we get on each other's nerves. I am thankful Ryan has been working from home this whole time. About once per week, he sometimes takes the kids to the pool during his lunch break so I can get an hour of quiet. It's been life-saving. There's been a lot of Minecraft and arguing, and I'm ready for a reprieve.

And now on to more uncertainty...

Tuesday, April 9, 2019

Eight Weeks

Obviously, I didn't figure I'd be using that title. Other than a "bomb cyclone" blizzard, snow day, bladder infection, four kid colds, three vomiting bugs, two price reductions, one house-hunting trip, one braces removal, six haircuts, quad gum graft and a mother-in-law visit... Nothing has changed. Still on the market. Still no offers. Almost no activity the last week either. Sigh. That's the update... or lack thereof. I'm still standing.

Wednesday, January 16, 2019

It's moving time again!

Ryan accepted a new job in San Antonio, TX on Monday morning. He'll be working for Southwest Research Institute, and he starts on February 18th. The kids and I will stay in CO until the house sells, hopefully before school gets out. We hope to put it on the market by February 13th. 
He is more excited than can be put into words, and I have had moments of excitement, but right now I'm just overwhelmed. So much to think about and to get done. 
                                    
His work will be on the west side of town, but as we've talked with people, it sounds like our family will be happiest on the north side instead, so he'll have a 30-40 minute commute each way. We'll live close to the temple though, so that'll be nice.

He'll also be traveling about one week each month, so that'll be a major adjustment for me and the kids. Living on the north side, we'll be closest to the airport. 

San Antonio is the 7th largest city in the US, so everyone seems to know someone who has or does live there. We are looking forward to all the newness, despite the anxieties. The traffic sounds like it'll take some adjustment for us too. 
                                          
Ryan has spent many business trips at Southwest and in San Antonio, but I've actually never been to TX, except layovers in DFW. He knows his new boss quite well, and our friends who have worked for the company say he's an amazing mentor for new managers. The offer really was too good to pass up. 

Caterpillar has a lot of employees in the San Antonio area, and we have several friends who live nearby that we knew in Peoria. It'll be fun to know a few people even before we can get settled in. 

We will miss Colorado, the mountains, the hiking and the waterfalls. We'll miss our friends and the "easy" drive to Utah to visit family and friends there. While living in this same house, we've been in three very different wards in three very different stakes, and as such, we are leaving behind many, many dear friends. We have loved our time in Colorado, and I dream of returning and living here again in the future. 

But, for now, here's to new adventures! 

Saturday, November 24, 2018

Fireplace!

Before pic. This is our family room in the "for sale" pics of our house before we bought it. Ugly, builder-grade fireplace.

This is a shot from Spring of 2018. We'd already demo-ed the built-ins, built two custom entertainment centers, installed distressed hardwood throughout the main floor, painted the tile white and added barn wood ship-lap above the fireplace.

But we hated the "dry erase board" appearance of the painted tile, so we took six months selecting the perfect stacked stone.

Demo Day was the Saturday before Thanksgiving weekend

Thanksgiving Day we got the new cement board installed. Ryan wanted it perfectly square and level so the install would go smoothly, so this was a long, precise day.

Let the fun begin - Friday morning we started with our GORGEOUS gray stacked stone.

By Friday evening, we were just waiting for all the glue to dry.

Getting closer... Early Saturday morning Ryan built the foundation for the new mantel.

Almost there... Saturday afternoon. Just a few finishing touches to go.

And... Ta-da!  The finished product. We are in love with our modern farmhouse fireplace.